Embracing change

Working women

All this while we have been talking about SAHM ( Stay At Home Mothers ) that how are they treated in return to their 24/7 job at home which offers no Sick leave , no Medical leave , no Casual Leave , No salary . They are definitely doing a great job, looking after their home and nurturing the kids.

Working Moms get equal thrashing of going out, leaving their kids in the hands of Maids, eating outside foods or maid cooked foods.

Whenever I take my son out in the garden, I find old ladies (Read Mom in Laws) discussing how bad they feel when they see their sons eating maid cooked food. It simply makes them feel terrible to see their sons doing household chores, but what these old women don’t understand, that by going out to earn, Daughter-in-Laws are actually helping the family by being an additional bread winner, which in turn eases out the burden from son’s shoulder.

Both the Jobs (a home maker and a bread winner) are equally important. Just the perspective needs to be changed to understand.

“Very little is needed to make a Happy Life; It is all within yourself, in your way of thinking “

-----Marcus Aurelius

Smart Phones taking over us: I M SURE – MAY BE

Smart Phones taking over us: I M SURE – MAY BE: To any of the readers who have dated or dating presently, have you ever been in the relation that makes you feel unsettled or uncomfortabl...

I M SURE – MAY BE

To any of the readers who have dated or dating presently, have you ever been in the relation that makes you feel unsettled or uncomfortable?

And if the Answer is yes, this one’s for you.

Analyze the situation and think what is it that isn’t letting you go??

Is it that you hardly have any time for yourself ,so find it difficult to give time to him/her , does it feel like he/ she is invading in your space ?Here’s the solution..

1) Do the hardest thing ever, and end the relation: - it sounds so easy to write and advice, but its one of the most difficult tasks to do. Trust me being honest always pays. You won’t have any guilt of cheating on someone or lying to yourself... You will feel relieved

2)Communicate: - Share with him / her what is it that is bothering you, if you both have good understanding and meant to be together, things will certainly work out. and be cheerful at the end whatever the outcome is

Relations aren't meant to make you feel burdened , rather they take off the burden .But if its Burdening , its time to think .

All the best !

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